mit indre jeg #NOMAKEUP

My story

I have since completely from kindergarten to 7th grade, been bullied by that I was chubby and ugly. some people have a period driven me mental. I was close to giving up everything I did not know myself more, and the good mood I often had when I was happy. you could really see how bad I felt. My habit was the time I tore my hair out. I was afraid of the people who were disgusting to me, and did not know what they could find to do when they hated me. I remember the unpleasant experiences where I was kicked and beaten, outside the door of the classroom. no one saw what happened. Was called words like thick so balou. whore, Malou your crooked bitch, etc. I was just myself the time as I am now. people have learned to respect me day. Today my family has supported me through all this. There was my mother who helped me in bad times. Now I live a life free from bullying, and much has happened since. has lost weight and has become a strong girl with heart in the right place. Helping young girls / boys who are bullied. You can all write in if you have something to write. The bullying I have been exposed have been damaged me for life. still wear scar on my soul. I find it hard to see if people want me well, or they will hurt me. since I came out of the bullying, I have been exposed to that I was ready to make a difference for young people. got in the way people feel. Now I am come a long way my project. and it is fantastic. I am alone in my project. Remember to write in when you need it. You can write anonymously. with advice or questions, or anything else you want to go out with.  People bully me still. I get unpleasant messages on Facebook. I know that it is because I follow my dream. Some people cannot tolerate the success of all those who bully me will regret it when they look at my blog that I have many who support me in my dream and that they bully mistakenof the words they write to me,

 

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  • Javi

    I’m so proud of you, this people are sick… Pushing others to their limits for no reasons…
    When I was 13, I’ve been bullyied too, and it takes me to cut myself, I tried to end my life bcos I thought that I was the problem.
    Seriously, we all need help, and what are you doing is a great project.
    Congrats! I can see how beautiful you are on the inside and the outside!!
    I can’t stop saying you : I’m so proud of you, congratulations!

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    • Katte

      What a wonderful and strong person you are to have gotten through that and to be using your success to help others. You are an incredibly beautiful person with a kind heart. I can’t very much say I went through the same thing as I didn’t get bullied. But I was very insecure and still am overcoming my insecurities, and it’s sort of like self-bullying. I guess. & I think that your story and your project will not only help children and even adults overcome this epidemic-like misfortune, but it will encourage other people to stand up for people being bullied. You truly are an inspiration and I have a huge amount of respect for you. I wish you nothing but success in your project. Have a blessed day. (:

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  • Ana

    Oi, sofri bullying no 2° série quando mudei para uma escola pública, foi um ano e meio me sentindo um monstro no meio das outras crianças, isso tudo aconteceu e eu nem sabia o que era bullying, agora que eu sei tenho até dó de mim, rsrs. Ainda hoje as pessoas me zoan, mas eu iguinoro, eu me sinto muito mal por isso, queria que fosse diferente, mas não dá :(. Muito bom esse teu projeto, parabéns.

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  • Ana

    Oi, sofri bullying no 2° série quando mudei para uma escola pública, foi um ano e meio me sentindo um monstro no meio das outras crianças, isso tudo aconteceu e eu nem sabia o que era bullying, agora que eu sei tenho até dó de mim, rsrs. Ainda hoje as pessoas me zoan, mas eu iguinoro, eu me sinto muito mal por isso, queria que fosse diferente, mas não dá Muito bom esse teu projeto, parabéns.

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  • Giampiero Rosa

    Dear Malou, it pains me that these things happen but unfortunately, sometimes, men are capable of real malice. The important thing, however, is able to overcome these unpleasant moments and I’m glad to know that You are successful in this, I am convinced that left it stronger! As to these bullies, unfortunately are driven by ignorance and malice but also their in one way or another one day they will understand the mistakes. A hug. Giampiero

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  • Angelikfruitcake

    Congrats! I’m proud of you too. I hate bullies… I think they have nothing better in life to do and they are insecure so they have to pick on others to feel better about themself. It is pretty pathetic. Maybe if they were stopped in school (by some authorities), there wouldn’t be so many adult bullies and those are not people you want to deal with in business or in the workplace, on a home owners association, club associations… They annoy me.
    You are a very strong person. What you are doing is a great project. Fighting!
    I hope everyone can overcome the unpleasant moments as you did…

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  • Alex

    Hey, that’s the best way to deal with bullying, to be confident with yourself and inspire others to do so. People who bully others are just trying to distract from their own shortcomings

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  • anano

    This story was so emotional … You are strong person. #respect

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  • Pritzker @Pritzker
    I see your blog
    you are an inspiration. I endure the effects of trauma, but find comfort in applying it to my benefit; thru images. My pain haunted and held me and I reacted from impulse. That was my lack of sagacity that is formed from the pain. It was my self loathing that let me inflict negativity that bullying taught me. I feel for the bullies and my anger is now hope. A healthy understanding is a basis from which I grow in a spirit of love and building community.
    Kudos for doing something positive instead of repeating this bad behavior.

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  • You are an inspiration. I endure the effects of trauma, but find comfort in applying it to my benefit; thru images. My pain haunted and held me and I reacted from impulse. That was my lack of sagacity that is formed from the pain. It was my self loathing that let me inflict negativity that bullying taught me. I feel for the bullies and my anger is now hope. A healthy understanding is a basis from which I grow in a spirit of love and building community.

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  • Frida for EyeEm

    Hi there Malou(: thank you for sharing pieces of truth for others to reflect and/or be aware of cruel treatment towards other people. Throughout my school experience when I was growing up, I as well did not fit into a specific group. But I quickly found out that the first step to really living a happy and fulfilling life is to always love yourself for who you are. Don’t let other people tell you how to live your own life because in the end we are all the same race/humanity just in our own unique ways expressing and experiencing life differently.

    You keep your head held up high and keep trying to reach out to others, and remind them that things will get better if you start byloving yourself!

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  • Cees

    Mooi dat je het overwonnen hebt.

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  • Austin Long

    Oh my gosh. This is soo sad but you are very inspirational! You’re soo amazing 🙂

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  • I have already shared this article on my G+ and Twitter.. To notice some people who have the same situation with you, and people who do the bad things with it. You are beautiful, such a nice girl.. Hope you have a beatiful life. Cheers from Jakarta! Visit my blog on : http://beautyasti1.blogspot.com

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  • Abubakar Siddique

    You are doing a great job by helping those kids. Proud of you. Hope you will be well recognised in the whole world 🙂

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  • Hi I’m Connor I got told to comment something so yeah hope it’s going well ? Stay strong

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  • Di

    Well done and keep it up… And believe That you could do Anything you put your mind to do.. and don’t let anyone put you down or stop you from achieving your dreams. XxX

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  • Mel

    You’re beautiful and brave. Touching story.

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  • You’re such an amazing and strong person and beautiful both inside and out. I really hate to hear that such awful things have happened to you. Keep staying strong. Love and respect.

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  • Hi Malou

    I just read your story. I feel really bad for you that you had to go through all this. When I was a kid I used to get called names at too because of my skin color. So I can imagine how you must have felt.

    All I can say is, no one can decide who you’re supposed to be. If they are not happy with what you look like it’s their problem. Not yours. Just live your life and be happy with the people who do care about you.

    Stay strong, stay you. 😉

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  • Carlos

    You are a strong and beautiful woman , don’t ever let anyone take that from you because you are gods best creation . I’m glad that you are able to inspire others that hade been in the same shoes as you and hopefully they can continue strong just like you did. May I wish you a blissful life and hope you still go for that model career that you wanted too 🙂

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  • Lisa

    You are a very strong person and you are very inspirational for everyone.

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  • Fethi

    Many thanks for your inspiring story. People need your brilliant project and your courage. Keep going!

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  • Jeffery Cassiers

    You are a strong girl !! Beeing bullied and still have power to help other ppl out ! There should be more ppl around like you . Respect !!

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  • ancus

    Girl im so proud of u !! Keep being strong, fuck what others will say !!!!

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  • silvia

    Last year, at school, I asked to my (ex) best friend if I could drink her orange juice, because I was so thirsty… She said ” yes, of course!” and she went out of the class.So, I drunk a little of it. When she retourned in the class, she said ” where is my juice?! ” I was incredulous.. ” G., I drunk your orange juice, but… ”
    “YOU! YOU ARE A THIEF!” She shouted.
    “No, G., Do you remember? You told me that..”
    “NO! DON’T APOLOGISE! YOU ARE ONLY A THIEF!”
    “That’s no possible” I tought.
    All of my classmates looked at me with a disgusted air.
    They told me” you are stupid/crazy/a bitch” or “your family is the family of thief”
    It was orrible. The next day G and other my classmates posted on Facebook photos where I was ugly, and they make fun of me.
    So, I decided to told the story to my mum. After the story, she went immediatly to the police.

    Now they respect me. And I’m stronger than before.
    p.s. sorry for my bad english, but I’m Italian and I learn this language at school. 🙂

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  • Elissa

    People need to stop bullying others you don’t know how much damage u impose on that person. People are dying because of “bullying” so i ask of any person that has been bullied or still is being bullied stand up and fight for yourself no one can hurt you. You’re an amazing person and someone if not more people out there loves you.

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  • sams

    I have no advice for the simple reason that I could never do what you did. You’re a strong girl and I hope that people will treat you with kindness and respect that you deserve.

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  • Mia

    Your beautiful

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  • Joanne

    After reading you’re story, I’m delighted to know that you have realised what a strong, wonderful, amazing & beautiful person you truly are. Nobody has the right to make another person feel unworthy. Stay true to yourself & may yours life be filled with happiness xx

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    • Lena

      I’m really proud of you that you came out of bullying that you ever stay string and be yourself i hope and i wish that lots of other girls See your blog and See that you fallow your dreams no matter what other says
      Your beautiful
      XXX

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  • Roae

    Your beautiful. Dont let others judge you for who you are. They bully because they want other peoples atrention be focuse on others flaws than theirs because they know they git a lot of flaws too. Ive been bullied to emotionally and physically but i show them that i am better than them. Look at where they are now? Thats what you should do. Chin up your pretty . Im sincere and hinest with this comment. Love , Beshiemee from eyeem

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  • Madi

    Keep fighting for what you believe in, you’ve come such a long way already. Your strength and beauty inspires me

    Much love
    Madi

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  • Maywa

    You are an extremely smart, strong, and beautiful young woman. The fact that you came out of that bullying phase stronger than ever is proof of that. And now that you’re helping others cope with bullying as well, it truly shows how beautiful you are both inside and out. Good luck with everything, love

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  • Jessie

    I think you are beautiful!
    You should be proud of yourself that you are strong enough to get through the suffering time. Try to be confident and you will meet people who are worthy to love and trust!

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  • Malou;
    Do not omit those beautiful blue eyes also ! Thank you for sharing your story with us. Unfortunately, it is too familiar.
    LiteHart.org will finance a safe , ad-free web-network, like facebook for kids up to age 18. Our mission is to stop cyber-bulling, and give them a website they can manage and share their creative side with each other, and work toward their future educaton. We have designed new systems to do it.

    We have not started building the ‘InfinitiKidz.com’ site yet, and we hope to get it started by end year. This is never been done before, and we are a U.S. nonprofit with an international board of directors. We will move out to the world. We are also forming advisory boards for LiteHart.org/InfinitiKidz.com. I thank you for following us here at fb. If you are ever interested in getting involved with us to help these kids, just let me know. We will establish advisory boards in each country as we expand. I assume you are in Denmark.
    Our head of the Teacher’s Advisory board for us, is Cathy Sosnowski, and has just published a book called “Koi Girls’, about a young girl who went through what you did, and how she overcame the bullying . Many are talking about it, and you can see her posts on our page and follow her, if you wish.
    Best of luck to you in your life. You will have scars from your experience, we hope that it will help you to help others. This is how and why we began our organization.
    Yours In Light & Love,
    Rosanne Allen-Hewlett
    CEO
    LiteHart.org
    “Children’s Brilliant Ideas Created With Love”

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  • Carla

    Congrats! You’re beautiful, not just from the outside, but also in the inside. By helping others, I can see that you don’t want others to go through what you did. It was very smart of you I do the project, and you’ve also come a long way. #staystrong

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  • Naomi

    Good for you wonderful! Your soul shines bright. May you be a light for others whom are struggling as well, and may your story and experience teach us all a valuable lesson. 🙂

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  • Mishka

    Seeing people like you helping other makes me so happy. You are saving people. Thank you so much for doing what you do. You are truly a beautiful person.

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  • Hello , im jonees i think u may know me im realy had some problems this days , mynlife its screw up , i have no one to help even my family , i tough u may help if we can talk in private u wpnderful strong girl nas experieced what u had i tough u want to help ahuman realy neeed help , its about life and died , im realy this days im thinkin to suicide , im soorry its too hard to me

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  • Sophie

    Wow..your story is really embarassing. I’m proud of girls like you who fight for what they do. You should never give up and keep strong. Fuck on these people who think they’re something better. They don’t know how it is to fight and to be strong.
    Hang on.! 😉

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  • Yara issa

    Hey gorgeous, life is beautiful but not always easy. It has problems and the challenge lies in facing them with courage. I’m very proud of what u did because its not easy specially cause u were hurt.. But, however, never give up and always be urself no matter what because the opinion of others doesn’t define who u really are. And obviously, you’re a very kind person.. Enjoy life but also be prepared to face the challenges and stay strong.

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  • Hey gorgeous, life is beautiful but not always easy. It has problems and the challenge lies in facing them with courage. I’m very proud of what u did because its not easy specially cause u were hurt.. But, however, never give up and always be urself no matter what because the opinion of others doesn’t define who u really are. And obviously, you’re a very kind person.. Enjoy life but also be prepared to face the challenges and stay strong.

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  • Victoria

    This is amazing, knowing that you are happy now and love yourself. I was bullied from kindergarten till half of seventh grade as well. They all hates that I was fat. I’m still trying to lose weight and get healthier. But I have people that love me and think I’m beautiful, boys and girls. I’m proud of you and you are NOT ALONE!! 🙂

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  • zack

    Stay strong and stay proud. And most of all, remember that only you can be the best at being you.

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  • Mimi

    Wow…I’m fascinated by your story. I think it’s great how you dealt with things and stayed strong, because I’m not sure how I would’ve handled those things.
    Congratulations you can be so proud of yourself!!!!!!

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  • Merve

    Hallo,
    Ich finde es toll das du dich dafür einsetzt. Es gibt immer Menschen die es darauf abgesehen haben anderen menschen weh zutun. Ich war auch ein opfer von Mobbing. Doch meine mama sagte immer zu mir : es gibt da einen spruch den ich mir merken sollte , es gibt 2 bäume der eine ist normal und der andere hat früchte. Die menschen lassen den hässlichen baum inruhe und versuchen den schönen baum mit früchten zu zerstören um ihr die früchte zu nehmen. Genauso ist es bei menschen. Wen jemand anders ist versuchen sie diese person zu zerstören. Menschen die mobbing opfer sind sollten mehr selbstvertrauen haben. Ihr seid gut. Und nicht schlechter . Jeder ist etwas besonderes.
    Sorry guys, thats what i have to say about this story. But its in German. Hope Google translate can help (:

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  • Nina

    Stay strong. Always remember the only person that deserves you is you ! No matter what people say to you in this world that’s not nice just laugh at them because they’re the one with the problem .

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  • Hallo my dear! I love your blog! I´m so sorry my danish is so bad! I´m very proud of you! You are such a great woman and i´m so happy to see your pictures on instagram or eyem! It would be such a great pleasure to meet you one day, if you ever come to berlin just write me! Hugs & kisses from germany johannna from vegginspiration

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  • Gerhards

    It’s good that you are sharing your experiences on this matter with the world, people should know what bullying does to others and how it can create long term scars.

    I was picked on from the fifth until the eight grade for being different from others. They called me names, talked behind my back and did everything in their power just to see me cry. It was a hard time for me, because I was only a child, I was naive, I trusted those who betrayed me. However all of these actions of hate made me stronger eventually and life took it’s own path. I studied hard and got a place at the best school in Latvia, where people are the exact opposite.

    People who spread hatred should not be punished, they need to see the pain and agony they spread upon others, so that they can judge themselves for the wrongdoings they’ve committed.

    We are all human, but humanity can only exist when everyone is a human being.

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  • Christina Boswell

    Don’t you worry at all. You are a very beautiful person and I admire all that you do. I went through through what you did. I get it people are cruel and it’s up to you how you overcome that. You my love, took the right route by taking a positive turn on this for the better and helping others. 🙂

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  • kamiko

    What a great and inspirational story…continue standing up for what u believe in! All those bullies r lacking some love and nuturing…n they only doing a disservice on themselves. Do whats in ur heart and I stand by u and protest that bullying shouldnt be a factor anymore..too many kids r dying over this shit..the bullys aint god…god has the power to show u whos god…congratulations and blessings to u xx

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  • Leïla

    No one should never be bullied by anyone.
    I was once, when I was a younger and fragile girl. But all this hate from people that don’t want to love and respect each other made me much stronger.
    And nowadays I am just proud of the person I have become.
    Never let anybody tell who you have to be and never forget this is your life.

    Hope you will succeed in your projects Malou, never stop being a voice for those who lost it.

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  • Ayanna

    I’ve been bullied about my weight because this kids are smaller than me but that has been going in since the 6th grade now I’m in 8th we are going back to school in two week I don’t know what is going to happen but yeah contact me at yanna684@gmail.com

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  • Danny

    You are a brave and beautiful girl!! Stay strong always…

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  • Leena

    You are very strong im so proud of you
    What a story !!!

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  • Steffi

    Hey, beautiful! I can tell u one thing: people who bully or laugh about others, aren’t the strong one’s. I hate those people. If they are alone they can’t say anything, they need teir “friends” to get that “strength” to bully a Person. “The one’s who fly alone have the strongest wings” think about that. What goes around comes back around, everyone who handle like this gets his punishment one Day. Stay strong & nice greets from germany 🙂 (i’m the one from eyeem)

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  • Mathilda

    Keep up with that work, it’s wonderful! And remember you ARE beautiful!

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  • Julia

    you look fantastic, and you are so strong! I respect you a lot. I cant write everything i think because im brazilian and i dont know how to say it in english but just keep like this and dont care if people say bad things to you, there will always be people like this in every person’s life, i feel sad because in my country there is alot of prejudgement against everything and the person who hurt others usually gets away unpunished

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  • Alexander

    You are a amazing person, a strong person with a beautiful soul. You can do anything with your life. Life is a gift but sometimes it’s hard, even horrible. But you didn’t give in. You kept going foreword. Bless you and many wishes. Keep it strong

    Best regards
    Alexander

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  • You are strong and are better than the bullies. Do never give up !
    Lots of hugs !

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  • Dutchcandybitch

    Sweet Ingen,

    Thanks for let me read this. Im sorry u have been bulliet too.. but im glad to hear u got the strenght and the help from your fameli to get through this.. your a special girl dont u forget that!

    With lots off love..

    Dutchcandybitch

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  • lilchicagoillinois

    “God surely sees all the bullying that is going on in the world, and he feels for those who are being oppressed. But will he ever do anything about it? Yes, he will! Note his promise found at Micah 4:4: “They will actually sit, each one under his vine and under his fig tree, and there will be no one making them tremble; for the very mouth of Jehovah of armies has spoken it.””

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  • lilchicagoillinois

    God surely sees all the bullying that is going on in the world, and he feels for those who are being oppressed. But will he ever do anything about it? Yes, he will! Note his promise found at Micah 4:4: “They will actually sit, each one under his vine and under his fig tree, and there will be no one making them tremble; for the very mouth of Jehovah of armies has spoken it.”

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  • Brenda from EyeEm

    Hi, Malou! 🙂
    First, let me tell you that you’re admirable! And the project that you’re doing it’s something awesome.
    I think that most of the people should take this problem into something serious. This problem is not something new, but sadly it’s a problem that has become in something more common and parents, teachers, and students should learn the dangers of bullying and help students who may be at risk of committing suicide.
    You’re a beautiful and incredible person :3 and I hope that your project could help more bully victims… Congrats! 🙂

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  • CATALEYA

    Hi fashionmulle ! I ve been myself à victim of bullying when I Was toung and this article means a lot to me . i Asked myself why the people always want to bring down other people … I think that in the history they are the ones who suffer the most ! I just want to tell you that you are à very beautiful girl and you hâve such a beautiful smile and handwritting … Be with the people who lift you up not the ones who bring you down ! You are superb , dont Forget that you are the one to Know your value ! You Will only be with one person in your life and its yourself ! Be good with you , love you first, treat you right first ! The others Will follow ! You are beautiful , keep on smiling cause its light up the whole world ! Love . CATALEYA Ruiz

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  • Alexandra G

    I strongly believe in not bullying others. I myself have been bullied not by other kids, so much as by my mom. I was homeschooled most of my life, meaning my mother would provide me homework and tests to pass each grade. Sure, I may have been spared the harsh words and behavior of other kids, but my own mother was my bully. I could not escape her. She would turn my own brother, father and my whole family against me, telling them how horrible I was. All I wanted to do was behave, be my own kind of pretty, and keep the few friends she would let me make. She would beat me when she was angered by anything, used to make me feel horrible about myself. My habit was picking at my face, which resulted in terrible acne… Also known as Trichotillomania-where you just compulsively pick at anything on your skin from pimples to scabs. I abused this, every time I got stressed I went to the bathroom and tore my face up in the mirror. My mother would only make me feel worse about my face which made me pick even more. she would tell me I used to be so pretty, what happened? Once I leaned over the counter too fast and fainted. That was my first wake up call. My friends I made when she finally let me go to highschool my senior year, were what pulled me out of this rut and supported me through the bullying. Now I live a confident, bullying-free life. There is hope. I promise. It may take years of suffering but you will be repaid with happiness. I was in my rut for 5 years. I considered suicide but someone told me there is hope. And there truly is.

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  • Ceren

    Is Berry nice

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  • Majka

    You are beautifull and strong person !! This is amazing story ;*

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  • beja

    I’m really proud of you! In primary school I was bullyied too because of my name…I cried a lot and was afraid of knowing new people…I hated my name too, because of that. I always said that I want a “normal” name. Now I realized that my name is perfect just the way it is and that is making me different from others in a good way.
    So, I think that anyone can be special in their own way, everyone is beautiful and those people who bullied are too unself-confident, so with bullying others they feel better…
    Ps. Sorry for some mistakes my English isn’t really good but I tried my best 🙂

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  • narmin

    Dear, Malou, I read it and liked. I want to say that if someone bullies you it means their self-confidence is so weak. when they bully someone they feel good. they are so weak. so you can laugh at them 🙂
    good luck!

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  • miss_nutxsy

    U did a great job.. Now i am trying to loose weight too.. Anyways its good to not been bullied by others.. Dont let anyone bring us down 🙂

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  • Avasāda

    This is so terrible and I’m so proud of u! I hope that something like that will never happened again to u and others!

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  • Noora

    Wow ur incredibly strong. I hope u stay this way, I have also been bullied before but iv accepted it. I know a lot of people don’t like me cuz I’m shy and
    Quiet. But It really is there loss. They won’t find any friend like me now a days

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  • Snow

    Woo hoo! You go girl! You have affected people with limitless inspiration, positivity beyond measure, and caring words… and people who are bullied have relatable advice. These bullies are sick weirdos who’re unbelievably dumb! Rock on! You are my idol! Hope you best of luck!

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  • Paola

    I’m so happy for you that you stayed strong through all this time. There is still so much bullying, but no one really talks about it. I’ve heard so many stories where the parents of the victims didn’t even care about it, saying things like “they’re just teasing you, one day they’ll stop” and that one day could be the their last one. I’m glad that your mother supported you through such a hard time.

    Now everytime I tell someone that I’ve been bullied since elementary school for nearly 7 years, they always say “what? How’s that possible? You’re so pretty.” Well back then I was a very quiet and shy kid and others quickly figured out that they could order me around. And of course I didn’t have the courage to say anything back. Because I was taller then most kids my age, they always treated me like I was some kind of creature from outer space and called me names.
    I didn’t tell my parents about it, cause I always kept things to myself and didn’t want cause any problems for others. Which was a mistake, cause maybe things would have stopped sooner.
    But I’m through and much stronger than before. Even if I still carry some scars on my body and soul, they just remind me of what I had to endure and to never let things like this happen again.
    Good luck with your project 🙂

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  • Maserati.

    I’m so proud of you sis! Never underestimate yourself, no one is perfect, and I’m pretty sure even if the most top model in the world can live their lives without saddness! Be confident in yourself girl! It’s important to live a healthy life but not forcing yourself to stop eating what you love. It’s all about balance:) Well done, keep going!!!<33

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  • Alice Hoffmann

    Beautifull text and story! Too proud of you and your attitude to share this!

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  • Beray

    Dear Malou;
    Im sorry to hear that especially the part that you sad you had a scar in your soul. I know you cant forget it but helping others is a very good thing. İts like a finding kindness in a bad situation. I had bullied too, but not physically never. When I was a child I was silent and invisible. Because when they see me all they can see a girl who can be used easily. And they used me a lot. They made me feel like Im weak and like Im nothing. Today I still feel that way but I try not to show it. But Im happy for you that things work out this way. I cant write much because of my bad language. But things get better every day and the bullying memories fade away.

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  • i think it’s amazing and inspiring that you pulled through all the bullying. i’m lucky i haven’t been bullied but i can still give advice – all bullies are insecure and try to hide it by trying to bring others down. always remember that you are beautiful and keep your head high.

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  • Lina-vanessa

    Hi, very beautiful text ! I just can hope that something like that never happens again to you!!!

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  • vvvvv

    You are a really strong person and you can be really proud of yourself. I know how it is when people dont accept you, although no one have ever bullyied me, they laugh about me in school because I wasnt able to speak german when I came there. Till I was 14 I noticed that nobody really likes me except my friends. Sometimes they call me names because of my appearance. They will always find something to criticize on people they dont like, always.
    You are doing a great thing, keep going 🙂
    (sorry for my englisch)

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  • prisca

    I think that people is too much selfish to treat other guys like shits. We must remember that we could be in that situation, so don’t be a bad guy, otherwise you are only a looser, cos you don’t treat other people all the same.

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  • prisca

    If you treat other people like that you are just a looser, cos you could be in that situation too.

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  • Joni

    Love it

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  • Rihan

    Glad that you are outa that sh**. It’s those people who really need some treatment. It’s not the outer looks that define a person. Those morons mind are infected with cancer. Make sure you just don’t give up the fighting and hold strong and kudos to your parents and relatives who stood by your side. Stay safe and above all just dlush those rotten memories outa your mind. It won’t do any good keeping them in and flick away that scarf you are wearing in your heart to hide the scars. It’s already healed. There’s no more scars left. Feel the fresh air now. God bless, stay safe. Our Prayers are with you.

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  • Rihan

    Glad that you are outa that sh**. It’s those people who really need some treatment. It’s not the outer looks that define a person. Those moron’s minds are infected with cancer. Make sure you just don’t give up the fighting and hold strong and kudos to your parents and relatives who stood by your side. Stay safe and above all just flush those rotten memories outa your mind. It won’t do any good keeping them in and flick away that scarf you are wearing in your heart to hide the scars. It’s already healed. There’s no more scars left. Feel the fresh air now. God bless, stay safe. Our Prayers are with you.

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  • I’ve read your blog and it was moving. I apologize that you had to experience that and it wasn’t cool what you dealt with. I’m glad that you came out of it stronger and a wonderful young woman. Sharing your experience with others is awesome and show them they don’t have to go through what you went through alone. I’m proud of you. Stay encouraged and keep sharing what you have written about your time of trouble.

    Have a blessed day and I pray all will be well with your soul and that the scar soon will heal and disappear.

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  • Simona

    Wow…it’s incredible!! I’m so proud of you,you are very strong…really. Nobody had ever bullied me,but I know what you felt,because my idol,Liam Payne been bullied and I know everything about it,so congratulations and smile always!! Byee

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  • Carmen

    I know how you felt, I’ve been on the same boat, when I was in high school I was bullied by this boy who called me fat all the time…after years I saw him again and he actually apologized and used the phrase “I don’t know why teens can be so mean with others” and it’s true because even calling someone by a horrible nickname even if is playing, it hurts. Moreover, I never gave up, I lost weight, believe on myself and carry on with a happy life.

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  • Anonymous

    Hey I would like to just tell you that you are an amazing person for standing strong when you were bullied. When I was younger, I too was bullied (not as badly as you were) but I had the same problem. People made fun of me because I was overweight and I never felt good about myself. Everyday I hid from the people and buried myself with work so I didn’t have to do anything. But one day, I went to a fair and met lots of new people who and we had to introduce ourselves to one another. When it came to me, I realised that I didn’t know anything about myself. I knew my name, age & nationality but my hobbies were all unknown and that was when I told myself that I had to start living for myself and not for the people around me. You have to remember that the best of people are the people who look beyond your physique and your appearance, who try to get to know you. If people look at you in disgust just because they think that you are not skinny enough, those are not the kind people you would want to become friends with. Maybe looking good and skinny may be a bonus but there is no point in having a figure when you have an ugly soul so remember that no matter what you go through in the future, just be yourself because that is the best thing you can do for yourself. People will love you for who you are and that will be what matters the most! I hope this helped honey 🙂 xx

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  • mio

    I appreciate your story I was kinda in your shoes…a lot of people don’t speak up but I give you kudos for that this will save someone’s life

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  • Brenna

    BeYOUtiful. Keep fighting, your story gives hope and strength to others x

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  • shaliah

    I’m so proud of you, people these are so heartless. And you strength and courage shows them that whatever they say or do it will not knock you down. You are a strong women.

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  • shaliah

    Very proud of you, people nowadays are so heartless. They think that bullying will raise their spirits up or push ours down, but what they don’t know is that when we have God and love on our side, all of there bullying means nothing. We are rising up to show them that we are stronger mentally, physically. Soon they will be alone looking at a Happy and better world.

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  • I think you are not only a beautiful girl, but a beautiful person as well. I think what you are doing is wonderful, I applaud you. My oldest daughter has a similar story as yours I. Will be sending her a link to your page. Keep up all of the good work! Thank you for all that you do!

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  • kristin

    I’m so sorry for what happened to you. It hurts my heart deeply. I was the target of cruel bullies as well, because I was very skinny and had to wear used clothes that didnt fit because my family was poor. I am very outspoken against bullying and gossiping. People don’t understand that words have the power to destroy someone’s life.
    I think you are a brave and beautiful young woman. Keep shedding your light on this dark world we live in. You CAN make a difference!

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  • Vanessa

    You’re such a strong woman, it was nice to read your post. It’s really nice that you became so strong and you’re really beautiful.
    does’nt matter what the others say. Ofc you still have scars on your soul and your heart… But there will be a lot of People Who will help you! Don’t give up on anything in your life.. i’m proud of you and this text needs a lot of respect. ☺❤

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  • kat brown

    I think ur beautiful, strong, inspiring, and simply AWESOME!!!!!!!!

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  • Sarah

    This was very inspiring. <3 You are truly amazing for overcoming such awful obsticals. I'm proud of you!(: I too was once bullied, but I've overcame it as well. I related to your story quite a bit. And I'm so glad you're no longer bullied. Bulling is a horrid thing that only shows you how much humanity is declining as moral human beings. Wonderful story, and beautiful girl. <3

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  • Lindsey

    I love this. You are strong, beautiful, and insiriational young woman. I’m so proud of you and the efforts you made to become nothing like the ones who inflicted the harm on you. Thank you for sharing your story to help others.

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  • Heber

    I just read your story. You’re really really strong and such a good person for helping other victims of bullying, you’re the kind of person that the world needs for a big change!

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  • Ally

    stay strong! You arent alone ❤️

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  • Veronica

    Omg! That’s the saddest story I’ve ever heard. I’m so proud of you for not giving up and always being yourself. Hope you do help all the kids around the world who are being bulled. Good luck!

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  • Luzifer

    I feel you. I really do. Stay strong, You should be proud <3

    xoxo

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  • Olga

    You are very strong person, I want to be as strong as you, really. Remember, that you are beautiful and wonderful women. Your story can help other people with problem of bulying. Stay strong ♥

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  • Marie

    I find it comforting that more and more people would rather stand up for what’s right Thant sit down and be quiet like we were taught as children . A huge part of bullying comes from parenting !!

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  • Kayla

    Hey girl! I’m so proud of you and want to encourage you to keep being strong. Don’t ever forget you are beautiful on the inside and out.

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  • Abi

    You have come a long way, with a hard path. I struggle with being bullied with my weight and looks right now. You’re beautiful and strong. So proud of you!

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  • Cl'Nasia Akins

    I love it! I’m so glad that there are people like you out here trying to make such a change .. I applaud you and may God bless you Malou.

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  • MadHatter

    I think it’s awesome that u are doing this for people. I myself fin that I take on “younger sibilings” to help them in their time of need. Because I was there but I was able to almost immediately put a stop to getting Billie and i want to let em know what I did. And I just want to be there for anyone in there times of need.
    Sincerely,
    Mr.Hatter

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  • Cant'e Tinza

    Bullying is very dramatic.. I too was bullied in grade school and in high school. I admire your strength and courage to fight on. I love what u do bullying can have long scares and make you feel like your not good enough or beautiful enough but I see the beauty in you by helping others. Kiddos to you my friend stay strong and keep putting the word out your an angel.

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  • Greg Daly

    Thanks for what you do
    You are very pretty but even more so because of your spirit

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  • Somps

    You are such a great person. Thank you for sharing and actually doing something about it. I hope that people are moved by your story and that they take an active role somehow to draw more attention to this problem. T hurts my heart to see people bullied. Take care.

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  • Tracy Graham

    Bullying is a horrible thing . My son was bullied for years and the whole family was effected by it.he is now older but still it effects him.
    We have come to the conclusion that bully’s are unhappy with them selfs some hate themselves feel inadequate in their life’s to make themselves feel better they bully others to build themselves up for only moments then they target someone again . I’m sorry you experienced this keep up your mission. You will be a stronger person for it.

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  • Giorgia Fitch

    i do believe you. You have given a strong point about bullying. I know what it feels like to be bullied. I think that you have the power to stand up against bullying. And you’re right about helping people who are bullied. I believe that is a great idea. Although, bullying can affect other people’s lives and they can commit suicide but don’t kill yourself because that is bad luck, so don’t do that. If you’re seeing this, believe me. And it’s true.

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  • Cloë

    You are who you are and this is good! Nobody should change you because you are not like the others!
    Your courage helps the people with the same stories or mostly the same, that’s great!

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  • Nicole

    Hammer was du geschafft hast. Ich habe wirklich den größten Respekt vor dir und ziehe echt den Hut! Bleib so wie du bist. Solche Menschen sind so schwach die einem anderen so das leben zur Hölle machen.
    ich finde es großartig was du auf die Beine stellst. 🙂

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  • I love you Kurdistan

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  • Önder Göksal

    hi U Will share my instagram link. Thanks 🙂
    instagram.com/ondergoksal/

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  • Christyn

    I’m sorry that you have been bullied when you were younger. No one should ever have experienced that especially growing up. this post will help millions of children and teens going through their lives of being bullied and knowing they can fight it and grow to be as beautiful as you.

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  • Tara

    You’re beautiful inside and out. I’m glad you overcame the evil, insecure children who persecuted you to become a champion for those afraid to speak.

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  • coleen meer

    There are alot of things that could bully us. Yes, things. Not only people. These things such as our insecurities, our weakness, our fears. But these things could be turned into something good with the right attitude. I would like to encourage you to keep believing in yourself, in your abilities, your existence, your importance. You are unique, precious. No one must has the right to let you down. Unfortunately, there are breakers like the bullypeople. But dear, with the right attitude, you can overcome and win the situation.
    I am currently being bullied by my fear right now but i keep telling myself that i can do it, i can overcome the bully, i can survive. I am important, this wont let me down.
    I hope you get something frm my comment.
    Someone loves you and cares alot for you. It may not be me, a stranger, but those closest to your heart. ♡♡♡

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  • I won’t take pity on you i know you wouldn’t want me to anyways.
    But I’m sry for wat yhey have done to you and glad that you went back on track

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  • Leo Mourniho

    looking beautiful is nothing if you have a ulgy mind cz we all are beatutiful in our own ways. We are born to be awesome not for beauty right. Those people are says you’re ugly just think how ulgy mind they have. Some people are really don’t know what they are doing and what they are saying. These people are so sick. And we don’t have the Right to hurt someone feelings. “Always Respect other people’s feelings” and i’m so proud of you. Stay strong do what you want. 🙂

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  • Claire

    When I was in middle school I was bullied because I was tall and a little over weight. It really bothered me because I just wanted to fit in. I went to high school and decided that my face was my face and my body is going to be mine until I die. So I need to learn to love it. And now I do. I don’t care what people say or thing anymore. To myself, I’m beautiful. And I don’t need to weigh 100 lbs to see that. I still sometimes suffer with relapses on my eating disorder but I’m gradually getting better. To anyone that’s been bullied because of how they talk, look, and where they come from. Just know that your opinion about yourself is the ONLY one that really matters. Once you learn to truly love your self. Then everyone else will too.

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  • Vince from EyeEm

    Well, one thing is for sure… You know yourself better. So just ignore them.

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  • olivia farlow-johnson

    I was bullied for 6 years and it sucks . YOU ARE NOT ALONE ! I found my way through god and my new school and it’s brought me on a better path now. I’m here for you!

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  • TheLakeMasonProject

    Stay strong beautiful. I believe in you and your message for the world.

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  • Sefa

    Your life story is very emotion. But people just talk they don’t think .i support and believe you

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  • Anamarie Olivas

    I’ve never personally been bullied, Except maybe a couple of small little comments like being called fat,but it’s nothing compared to what I see everyone else being bullied like, but I know what it feels like to be bullied because I’ve been a witness of how others can be bullied and their feelings being hurt.
    I’m truly sorry for anyone who has been bullied..
    But just keep in mind that there is always some one who will love you no matter what.

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  • Angi

    I really liked your blog, thank you for sending me the link. For me it’s hard to explain what happens to me, I suffer from bullying to times, for many people i am invisible. My friends (including my best friend) i excluded from all projects of the course, I hide things, etc and that hurts me. People think that I am a very lucky girl I am, but really sometimes i am not, I’ve gone through so many things. Are already 2 years followed, I have barely 16 years old and i hate my life, sometimes.

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    • fashionmulle

      .I understand you 100% have even been there. I was disenfranchised. But then I took the courage to do something about it. found other friends from 5 class to be with. it helped me so I did not felt more alone at school. Maybe you can use my advice,

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  • john medel tan

    I like your blog hoping that all the people who experience bullying would be as strong person like you… i dont know what those people are thinking… do they even have brains or heart… well keep on doing what you do thumbs up for you dear

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  • Você tem uma linda história de superação, parabéns!

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  • Esin

    You are so amazing women. I m proud of you. İ wish i’ll strong like u

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  • Himanshu

    I really feel sorry for you but appriciate you and your family’s courage. Even I have gone through such a thing but I came out.
    The people who bully us, they don’t care about beautifull hearts. They always look for beautiful faces. Bad people always say bad things, they always do bad things. I am glad you shared everything with your family and they supported you.
    We should really care about people like you.☺
    I am very happy that I am writing this to you.

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  • April Allen

    God bless you! I have been bullied too when I was young, but never thought I would be stronger like this after everything I’ve been through. I just want to say that we cannot always please everybody, but don’t ever make your ugly past ruin the good person you are. Instead of cursing those people who hurt you, thank them because they were the ones who taught you to be a better person than them. Pray for their souls. You are a beautiful person, don’t let these people destroy the kind of beauty you have in your soul. Always remember that whatever happens, you don’t need to change yourself to fit in. You are amazing just the way you are. You don’t have to be fat or thin, you don’t have to cut your hair or color them, you don’t have to have a lot of money, you don’t have to be tall or small, you don’t have to be someone else to make other people appreciate your worth. Just be yourself and no matter what other people throw at you, just smile, stand up, keep your head up high and believe in yourself always. I love you. ❤

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  • Erica Veras

    I too did bullying me, said I was ugly and very skinny. I cried a lot and hated my classmates. Thank God I could get through this. Now I love myself no matter what others think of me.

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  • Aurelien Yvon

    Love

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  • Margie Lucas

    Baby girl you are such a beautiful young lady from the inside & out. You don’t worry about what anyone is saying about you. You only worry about your self & God. Keep doing what your doing honey & I praise you for staying strong & courageous.

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  • Nicole

    I saw your comment, and I would just like to tell you to continue to be strong I believe in you. I have just recently dyed my hair pink I have gotten many rude remarks about it but it doesn’t effect me anymore. and you’re so pretty please never give up.

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    • fashionmulle

      Thank you very much you are so cute.

      You will not find yourself in those people who demean you with your hair. You are unique and beautiful as you are We all are unique on every our way continue to be yourself

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  • MarionDesportes

    Dear Malou,

    Your story moved me so much that I couldn’t resist to write you mine.
    When I was 15, I was not very funny, pretty or good at maths or languages.
    I was deeply thinking that I was a good person but that I was not a very interesting one.
    People were laughing at me behind my back because I had “a graceless face with acne and several kilos too much”.
    At this time, I still had three girlfriends who (I thought) would always be there for me.
    The same year, I dated my first boyfriend which surprised everyone as I was “the ugliest one of the group”.
    I don’t know if those three girls fooled me from the beginning of our friendship or if they started to hate me because they were jealous but the result is that they started to tell creepy stories about me or me and my boyfriend to everyone in addition of the fact that everyone said horrible things about my physical.
    In two weeks, the whole school started to think that I was a crazy/nymphomaniac/stupid girl.
    I ended up my last months of junior school alone and without the capacity of looking anyone in the eyes.
    My boyfriend left me 8 months later, after almost a year of relationship. This made me react.
    It was time for me to stop thinking about those people and to make new friends. As I entered high school, I took profit of the fact that people didn’t know me at all.
    During summer, I had lost the few kilos I had to lose and started to take care of myself.
    After all, I also had the right to feel pretty and anyone can be with a few scrubs and creams haha!
    The first year was difficult but I met great friends who supported me to gain self confidence.
    As I grew up and from the second year of high school, men started to look at me differently and to find me attractive.
    Today I am 20 and working as a model for several model agencies in addition to my studies and I’ve been in a relationship for more than a year with a great guy.

    Moral of the story: Never let people tell you who you are, show them who you are and what you worth. You’re your own life’s boss.

    Thank you for reading this, I hope it will help some of you :142:

    Follow my daily life on Instagram: @MarionDesportes :kissing_heart:

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  • Dmitry

    Bullying makes weak child into a stronger man. Bullying – social institute aimed to give you strenght to live whole rest life whith your individual. Don’t stop bullying – make it safer.

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